Letter: Women an asset in all areas of life

In case anyone hasn’t noticed, women have been sentinels on the front lines since time began. We are indeed male counterparts as well as companions. We are well-adapted at boosting sagging male egos with a kind word, a hot meal or three-inch stilettoes.

We are insightful, intuitive, can predict future events with uncanny accuracy and can size up any situation in an instant. It is easy for us to detect patterns, or to spot a designer purse, shoes or dress across a room or in a crowded flea market among hundreds of dissimilar objects. Our gut-level feelings are always accurate and we abide by them. We can multi-task easily, stirring a hot pot and nursing a baby at the same time.

With regard to strength, any small-framed female will turn into a pit bull when her children or family are threatened. If we can’t convince someone else to help us carry a heavy object we can always find a way to stuff it into a shopping cart. We have been carrying large shoulder rucksacks for years, called purses.

As for nerves, we are as relaxed brokering a million-dollar deal in some boardroom as we are giving or receiving a massage. We can follow orders with blind obedience, run multiple errands, return phone calls and make appointments without question.

Women in combat are nothing new. We have been quietly and diligently without interruption watching male backs forever and will continue to do so, day in and day out.

Irene M. Beary

housewife

Baton Rouge


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Comments (17)


1) Comment by Whatnow - 27/02/2013

Well, I have been shot and I've had kidney stones. I've heard from women who have had kidney stones. They say it's as bad as labor and if that is true, I'd rather take the bullet instead of that pain. That was pain, dudes!!! Lighten up, guys. It was just a complimentary comment and I know women who could fight just as well as some guys after training.

2) Comment by Whatchange - 26/02/2013

This letter would be so easy to pick apart. Whatnow; that comment was really off the wall, just because a woman gives birth natural or otherwise in no way makes her suitable for the military or combat for that matter, it takes a lot more than that.

3) Comment by wherearewegoing - 26/02/2013

@Whatnow "Any woman who can go through natural birth can handle anything in battle." What? Childbirth (natural or otherwise) has nothing to do with a woman being fit for military combat. If you want to promote women and how tough they are, that's fine, but use a sensible argument.

4) Comment by On_The_Fence - 26/02/2013

Nice to hear a woman supporting other women. They don't always do that. For some sordid reason. Good for the Mrs.

5) Comment by nimby? - 26/02/2013

I have no problem with women in combat roles , nor will the enemy . they will show no mercy and play to this nations emotions with such ...

6) Comment by Whatnow - 26/02/2013

DMJ, I think she's celebrating it and telling us how they are fit for the military.

7) Comment by DMJ - 26/02/2013

I still can't tell if this lady is lamenting the role of women in today's society or celebrating it.

8) Comment by Whatnow - 26/02/2013

comicref, Well, when you have a husband who's crying "where's supper" and a baby who's crying for the same thing, a woman's got to do what a woman's got to do. I admire women who can do all that multitasking. Mine certainly did. Staying home and raising three babies while keeping a perfect clean home and keeping me happy was no easy task. I felt like a king. Any woman who can go through natural birth can handle anything in battle. They have many roles. They are not as delicate as we'd like to think.

9) Comment by comicref - 26/02/2013

"Our gut-level feelings are always accurate and we abide by them." Even Amelia Earhart? BTW, did Irene's gut tell her nursing a baby while stirring a hot pot is a horrible idea?

10) Comment by Whatchange - 26/02/2013

What is this woman talking about.

11) Comment by Bighug - 26/02/2013

I was thinking this was one tough woman, then upon reading the comment by rgerald I realized the "three-inch stilettos" was in reference to shoes.

12) Comment by DMJ - 26/02/2013

Was thsi satirical or sarcastic? I mean....she goes on and on about how strong women are (which depends on the woman, just like with men) yet all the skills and talents she mentions have to do with serving men and being mothers. Surely, a woman does not need a husband or child to define her. "We can follow orders with blind obedience, run multiple errands, return phone calls and make appointments without question." Heh? I can't tell if she's being prideful or just bitter. Anyone?

13) Comment by 8point6 - 26/02/2013

@rgeraldwallace@cox.net : Yep!

14) Comment by 8point6 - 26/02/2013

@rgeraldwallace@cox.net : Yep!

15) Comment by rgeraldwallace@cox.net - 26/02/2013

Here's to Ms. Beary; I agree that women have no boundaries that any one of them recognizes as pertaining to her, and I applaud their courage, it has never been debatable. I would like to point out that 3 inch spike heels are certainly as asset to any lady, and I heartily approve. I have long maintained that the shorter the skirt and the longer the heels, the more intelligent the lady. I also have no problems with women's movements; I'm content to follow them.

16) Comment by Spudaroonski - 26/02/2013

Great letter Irene. Now get back to that house work. You don't want hubby to think you've been dilly dallying all day on the computer.

17) Comment by Bighug - 26/02/2013

If only my wife would limit her purse and shoe purchases to flea-markets!