Letter: Some warning signs identifiable

12/14/12. A quiet town in Connecticut. Shock and grief again. Why? As a forensic social worker, my primary responsibility is working with criminal defendants who have been found incompetent to stand trial. Most are not violent offenders. Most are mentally ill or intellectually limited. Many are products of dysfunctional or toxic social environments. Sometimes I sit in a little room with stone-cold killers. Many of them present little different from any manner of family, friend or neighbor.

Researchers profile a variety of identified types of mass killers, which are more common than serial killers but harder to evaluate because their own death is typically factored into their method.

Most are young adult males. Fifty percent are significantly depressed and have, seemingly paradoxically, high versus low self-esteem. Most cases involve symptoms of personality disorders versus mental illness. They lack empathy and impulse control, have low tolerance for frustration and externalize blame for their problems to others.

They perceive their situations as more of an acute strain than most of us; a catastrophic loss or mistreatment, usually in a relationship or job situation. Frustration builds to rage and a process of justification culminates in punishment of anyone implicated in his misery or even anyone associated or in proximity. They do not just snap. They deliberate, justify and execute. If mental illness is the case, it is typically a global paranoid persecutory delusion.

Early warning signs are identified but also occur in individuals who adjust and find peace. Children and young adults who are typically physically aggressive, impulsive, seem to lack empathy for others, are withdrawn and hold in their core emotions are at risk for a progression of maladaptation. Family and professionals can strive to instill in them a sense of responsibility for and control of their actions. We can empower them to communicate their thoughts and feelings, teach realistic expectations and goals and to have empathy for others.

Stan Rynott

forensic social worker

Lafayette


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Comments (9)


1) Comment by Being_Stupid - 19/12/2012

The problem is VIDEO GAME ADDICTION. Kids isolate themselves from family, friends, and other social contact. They focus almost entirely on in-game achievements rather than real-life events. There is only one cure. You must legally evict the Video Game Junkie from your house and file a restraining order to prevent them from coming back. Force them into the real world and to fend for themselves. Make them homeless and live on the streets under a bridge if you must. DO NOT GIVE IN TO THEIR PASSIVE-AGGRESSION.

2) Comment by Being_Stupid - 19/12/2012

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3) Comment by wadep66 - 19/12/2012

Very thoughtful letter. As is often the case, there is no quick-fix solution that we all hope for. The fortunate thing is that there are signs and perhaps if we spent some time educating parents what to look for instead of arguing about health care or gun control, something positive could happen.

4) Comment by DMJ - 19/12/2012

Yes, Stan, we can do all that stuff. You know what else we could do? Not let people like this get their hands on an M-16. Just a thought...

5) Comment by Bouncer - 19/12/2012

Mr. Rynott says "We can empower them to communicate their thoughts and feelings, teach realistic expectations and goals and to have empathy for others." I say that you cannot grow a conscience in these monsters, no matter how much you talk out their "feelings" with them.

6) Comment by tradewinns - 19/12/2012

so what you are asking is for society to "roll the dice" because everyone deserves a chance. wonder how the parents of those killed would think about that?

7) Comment by rgeraldwallace@cox.net - 19/12/2012

All that stuff is hot air; this kid wasn't on the short end but instead was a pampered nut who was told how great he was every day. He had too many chances to do right; he never got any better and the news that his doting mother was finally going to commit him caused him to act on his unreasonable anger against the innocent children with whom she worked as a volunteer.

8) Comment by chem - 19/12/2012

"If mental illness is the case, it is typically a global paranoid persecutory delusion". Sounds just like religion.

9) Comment by Wallop - 19/12/2012

Great letter Mr. Rynott. Now all that's necessary is to find a way to get most Americans to care about such individuals instead of simply ridiculing them and pushing them away.