Scorned husband: Marriage, life in shambles from McAllister's behavior Scorned husband: Marriage, life in shambles from McAllister's behavior Advocate story April 09, 2014 Comments The husband of the woman caught making out with U.S. Rep. Vance McAllister told CNN that the Louisiana republican's behavior has “destroyed his life and marriage.” Continue reading full CNN story here. In an exclusive interview with The (Monroe) News-Star, said McAllister asked his wife, Kelly, and their five children for forgiveness weeks ago, before the release Monday of a video showing him kissing another woman. He said the relationship was “absolutely” his first infidelity. See The News-Star story here. The News-Star also reports that a West Monroe minister says McAllister’s Monroe District Office manager leaked the video of the congressman’s tryst.